The Power of Play: What a Ukulele Workshop Taught Me About Openness and Connection

Last week at the Imagination Club I had the opportunity to test a workshop titled, “Strumming Curiousity: Embracing Change with the Ukulele”. Fourteen participants took part in ukulele based activities to connect to their inner thoughts as well as connect to others. 

This is what some of them said after the workshop: 

“Making music is fun.”

“It is so natural to be creative.”

“That was so playful and safe.”

Here are my observations and reflections:

1. I was impressed with everyone’s openness and flexibility to just go for it.

It was amazing to witness how willing participants were to embrace the unfamiliar. Everyone approached the ukulele activities with an open mind, ready to experiment and learn. This eagerness to explore without fear of mistakes is a powerful reminder that curiosity thrives in a supportive environment. When we remove the pressure of perfection, we open the door to discovery and growth.

2. Everyone safely entered into the play space (potential space) where everyone explored the unknown together. 

There was a collective sense of trust that made it possible for everyone to step into a space of creativity and spontaneity. This “potential space” is where play, imagination, and connection intersect, allowing people to push beyond their comfort zones in a safe and encouraging way. Seeing the group navigate uncertainty together—whether through tapping the body of the ukulele, plucking a string or two or improvising melodies—reinforced how play can be a powerful tool for collaboration and innovation.

3. Music nourishes our capacity for connection. 

The shared experience of making music created an immediate bond among participants. Music bypasses words and taps into a more instinctive, emotional way of communicating. Whether through synchronized strumming, rhythm, or simply sharing laughter over a missed note, the workshop highlighted how music fosters trust, empathy, and a sense of belonging. This reminds me that in both personal and professional spaces, engaging in creative expression together can deepen connections in ways that traditional team-building exercises often can’t.

I’m looking forward to applying my learnings to improve the next time I run the ukulele team building workshop. 

Thank you Jeffrey & Andy and all the folks who joined in and shared their valuable feedback. 

Contact me if you’re interested to boost trust and connection in your team through the power of music.

Curious Islands card game

Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to connect with the people you work with from the place of imagination?

Welcome to the Curious Islands!

We believe you can spark curiosity and meaningful connection in a safe and fun way!

It is with our utmost pleasure and excitement that we are inviting you to test our new, team-connection card game, The Curious Islands!

In this game you get to create your very own, true to yourself, magical island. Rich with all the features you desire. You will also learn about other islands and your fellow islanders.

The goal of this game is simple. Build, explore and connect your islands. What hidden gems will you discover within the people you will meet along the way?

“(After playing the game I feel) open, relaxed, at ease, familiar. I learned about people through how they related to activities as much if not more than by what they said. Just getting people talking opens connections and some familiarity.” 

This game, self-explanatory and not needing facilitation, is designed to foster psychological safety and connection and spark curiosity for further conversations and explorations between participants.

Who is the game for?

The game is for groups of people who know each other or who are just forming. The tone is set by the depth of connection. It is for extroverts, introverts and ambiverts. The game is set up to be experienced while being physically present in a location.

What do you need for the game?

  • a comfortable quiet space
  • a flat space for the cards
  • 4-12 participants (16+ of age)
  • 1-2 hours of your time
  • curiosity

Curious to learn more and schedule a session? Click here

We are looking forward to meeting you and your group!

Game developed by Christopher Malapitan and Kasia Skuratowicz

Creativity Lab

I created the Brussels Creativity Lab in beginning of 2020 because like any skill, creativity needs practice too. The monthly meetup is open to anyone interested in exploring new possibilities, questioning assumptions and discovering their creativity.

It is very important to establish a safe and supportive environment to foster learning in a collaborative way. To be able to encounter one another and learn from our varied expertise. Creativity thrives on diversity.

The first edition of the meetup (29.1.2020) was titled, “Seven Deadly Sins of Creativity” – through a series of collaborative activities we explored various barriers preventing us from connecting to our creativity and how might we overcome them. By moving beyond barriers of our creativity we enable unimaginable possibilities to emerge.

At the start of the session participants were invited to activate their explorer’s mindset:

  • to invite curiosity
  • to expect resistance and push forward
  • make connections
  • be flexible and open to possibilities
  • share stories of our understanding of the world

The Approach

Drawing inspiration from Logotherapy by Victor Frankl , participants were encouraged to approach all activities with “paradoxical intention” which is to demonstrate the opposite of what you are aiming to achieve.

So instead of trying to find a “way out” which typically suppresses a barrier, with a paradoxical intention approach, we exaggerate the barrier to a point of irony making it look seem ridiculous thus reducing it’s “power” over us. Using humour helps reverse our attitude towards it. Therefore resistance is reduced or disappears.

Activities

I created a deck of 39 cards with a single barrier on each card such as ego, fear of rejection, impatience, distraction, conformity, complacency, and over thinking, to name a few. Before each activity participants received a single card, then were invited to take part in a creative activity such as:

  • Generate 5 tips to promote the barrier
  • Create a personification of the barrier
  • In your group create a human sculpture representing the barrier
  • Create a unique dance move of your barrier. Everyone replicates the move

The meetup continues to nurture and grow creative behaviour within ourselves and with others. Join in the fun, tap into your creativity and meet some awesome folks. 

We are creative beings, our lives become our work of art
– Julia Cameron

A two day retreat for WeBrussels

Creative expression brings down the walls and builds trust, connecting us across cultural, religious, socioeconomic, and generational divides. – Partners for Youth Empowerment

I had a fantastic time leading a two day retreat for WeBrussels – a group of passionate citizens aiming to reinvent politics in the city of Brussels. They were the folks behind the “municipalist” summit “Fearless Cities Brussels” which gathered locally engaged citizens  to discuss creative ways of managing the social challenges of the city.

The aim of the two day retreat was for the community to discover each others strengths and deepen their connections.

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